People ignoring the science of vaccinations likely will get a double whammy of flu and covid this Fall and Winter, some reports share. In like manner, it becomes important to carefully plan and learn signs so as to avoid the double whammy of another abusive person in your life. When abuse becomes the norm of childhood or adulthood, it is easy to step in again and again to another and another situation. It is imperative to learn the signs of another’s unkindness, another’s cons, another’s fake niceness, and ones own attraction to those lures. Self love and self care are steps in that direction so you can see, feel, hear when someone else is truly less than respectful. See red flags and take yellow flags seriously.