As a survivor, you need to recognize people who will want you to help them…use you for themselves only. If you were a people pleaser, this is very important information. Pleasing people won’t keep you safe with any of these individuals. Read this: “The Psychological Core of Unethical, Antisocial People | Psychology Today”

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/toward-less-egoic-world/201808/the-psychological-core-unethical-antisocial-people