Remember that you are many sides. You have joy, happiness, cheer, peace, humor, wisdom, self-control, empowerment and all the opposite sides of you. NO ONE trait or emotional state or even thinking pattern needs to define your identity. Moreover, as you embrace growth mindedness, you realize there is even more of you waiting to be cultivated, educated and set free to experiment and engage in life. Yes, it is a PRACTICE to be aware of those sides that are truly you that you actually feel better about expressing. And, too often, people become very stuck in one way of being. Set yourself free to be complex. Consider this the PRACTICE of being FACETS of you, like a diamond with many surfaces.