Pleasing people as a consequence of being true to yourself and true to your values and expertise is wonderful secondary pleasurable outcome. On the other hand if your primary purpose and primary goal and focus is to please people, your ability to act wisely autonomously, act in accord with your values and ethics, as well as your ability to discern clearly will be quite lost or compromised. Enjoy when people are happy but DO NOT set that as your primary goal or purpose in life. Consider the article. Take care to be wisely yourself. Dr. Carol drcarolfrancis@gmail.com