TERA…these four skills help you develop connections and trust authentically. These same skills can be used by cons or alluring abusers so you need to know when these skills are used to manipulate you to comply. Finally, when you do not feel connection or trust, ask yourself if the other person is not matching your brain wiring needs. Perhaps they are merely unskilled or uncaring or not trustworthy. “How to make yourself irresistible according to neuroscience”